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Post by wipeoutman33 on Apr 3, 2014 18:27:33 GMT -5
I have a crush on a girl, but I'm not really sure how to approach her. I have had a crush in the past, but we were never really in a
relationship, and she ended up moving to another state. I have moved on from that, and I've found someone new. I have been friends with this
girl for awhile, and I want to tell her how I feel, but want to get the timing perfect. I am very quiet, and I do not talk very often.
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Post by therealcu2010 on Apr 3, 2014 19:13:54 GMT -5
You're asking a bunch of nerds on the Internet. We're prolly not the best people to ask.  |
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Post by Prizes on Apr 3, 2014 19:47:36 GMT -5
I'd help, but I need to know more about her, as a person. What does she like? What are her experiences like? Last relationship?
I could be here awhile at this one, haha.
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Post by wipeoutman33 on Apr 3, 2014 19:51:54 GMT -5
She is very book smart, athletic, and has a lot of friends. My heart always pounds when she comes around, and I always think about her.
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Post by wipeoutman33 on Apr 4, 2014 16:44:58 GMT -5
Any takers?
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Post by Prizes on Apr 4, 2014 16:57:50 GMT -5
Well, okay. Talk to some of her friends, to find out specifics about those, if you don't know. Like, what sports does she play? Does she have an idol in those sports? If so, why? Role models have traits we'd like to see within ourselves, or in others, so know sports role models could be very beneficial.
Smart...this can mean a lot. What topics does she like in particular? Is there anything you know, would like to know (as she could always teach you), about said topics? Do you share an interest in them? Maybe do a little research on them, if you don't, so you can impress her a bit, both that you know whatever it is you're talking about, and that it relates to her. It will at least put you in the back of her mind. Treat her very kindly, and do the little things for her (doors, books, helping study if need be, etc.). You might be giving obvious signs by doing so, but doing this allows her to consider your actions for at least some point in time. Nobody does such actions for nothing, and usually it IS a crush.
Heart pounding and always thinking about her is really sweet of you, very romantic. I might use that line eventually, but not at first, because it's a bit desperate. Desperation gives the outward (or inward, if she's also been looking at you) feeling of sort of an emptiness around you, and kind of odd (as in, a "Why?"), too.
Just...I don't know you, her, the dynamics of where you two are in terms of age, or many other things. I hate to say it, but hope for the best, prepare for the worst. You can at least mitigate this, by taking your crush to the next level, by being a young gentleman to her, as I assume you are fairly young, and most young men your age, well, aren't. But it's appreciated, unique, and what goes from there, depends on the girl...like I mean, I'd like that, as a classic romantic, but it's not for everyone (though most go through a "Mr. Perfect-Right" stage, in which they/we think a knight will sweep off the feet, and make a princess).
Wish you well...I'm probably one of the few long regulars around these parts that could help you with this, with no disrespect to anyone else intended or implied.
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